A recent client’s experience with her obstetrician and place of birth got me thinking about how parents choose who is going to attend the birth of their children and where it will be. Some people plan before they even become pregnant. Some people just take the first name that they come across.
Most typical ob practices have anywhere from five to eight doctors. There may be one in particular that you see regularly, but who attends your birth is left up to the on-call schedule.
A private family practice pretty much guarantees that you will have YOUR dr. at your birth, which is nice. However, as with most doctors, your appointments will consist of LONG waits and short visits. Pee in a cup, get weighed, take vitals, measure belly, and listen to heart beat. Any questions? No? Bye!
A midwife appointment can be anywhere from her office to your home. It can be as long or as short as you want. She *typically* makes an effort to build a real relationship with you. Does this post sound biased? Yeah, to me, too.
No matter who a family chooses, they should take in to consideration the principles of the Mother Friendly Childbirth Initiative.
It seems pretty simple-things like:
- Birth is a normal, natural, and healthy process;
- A woman’s confidence and ability to give birth and to care for her baby are enhanced or diminished by every person who gives her care, and by the environment in which she gives birth; and
- Interventions should not be applied routinely during pregnancy, birth, or the postpartum period. Many standard medical tests, procedures, technologies, and drugs carry risks to both mother and baby, and should be avoided in the absence of specific scientific indications for their use.
Unfortunately, in our area (Upstate SC), there are only 2 obstetric practices that follow those principles. The list of midwives is over 5 times as long.
Go to Upstate Birth Network for more information about our local Mother Friendly providers.
This is one of the most important moments of your life! Make sure the people involved are there for YOU and your best interests.
New and expectant parents, super-doula extraordinaire Julie Byers is teaching a Natural Baby Parenting Series. The first class was last week, but there is still time to sign up for the rest of them. The next one (Breastfeeding) is Nov. 22 at 6pm.
They are being hosted at Natural Baby in downtown Greenville. Click on the link below to register!
I’m sure everyone knows that October is National Breast Cancer Awareness Month. We are seeing pink everywhere. But, there is something that isn’t really talked about for some reason or another. I guess it’s too risque. Please.
Yale researchers did a study in 2001 (TEN YEARS AGO) that showed if women breastfed their children for at LEAST 24 months, their risk of getting breast cancer decrease by 50%!!!!
My theory (which I’m such isn’t unique to me) is that the LACK of breastfeeding or early weaning increases your risk. Because breastfeeding is physiologically NORMAL, it would make sense that those who do are more likely to NOT develop breast cancer (and ovarian, uterine, and cervical!).
Pregnant mamas, I would say that the first thing you need to do is make sure that the facility you give birth in is designated as “Baby Friendly.”
The Baby-Friendly Hospital Initiative (BFHI) is a global program sponsored by the World Health Organization (WHO) and the United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF) to encourage and recognize hospitals and birthing centers that offer an optimal level of care for lactation based on the WHO/UNICEF Ten Steps to Successful Breastfeeding for Hospitals.
Unfortunately, at least for those mamas who are local to me-as of October 5, 2011, there is not ONE is South Carolina. Now, I suspect our birth centers probably fall into this category, they just haven’t been designated.
So, the next best thing I can suggest is to build a GREAT support group. The Upstate has two very active La Leche Leagues-one in Greenville at Natural Baby and the other is in Spartanburg at Labors of Love.
For those moms who are breastfeeding, bravo! It can be very difficult given the views that society has imprinted on us. And the next time someone makes a comment, removes a picture (cough facebook cough) just remember, you are doing the VERY best thing for yourself and your family.
The moon is most happy
When it is full.
And the sun always looksLike a perfectly minted gold coin
That was just Polished
And placed in flightBy God’s playful Kiss.
And so many varieties of fruit
Hang plump and round
From branches that seem like a Sculptor’s hands.
I see the beautiful curve of a pregnant belly
Shaped by a soul within,
And the Earth itself,
And the planets and the Spheres –
I have gotten the hint:
There is something about circles
The Beloved likes.
After your baby is born, she will be covered with a white kinda cheesy looking substance called vernix caseosa. This protects the baby’s skin in utero from being in constant contact with amniotic fluid.
In typical hospital births, the vernix is immediately wiped off of the baby. This is standard. However, you can choose to leave it on and then massage it into your baby.
Vernix works is not only a great moisturizer,it’s also an effective cleanser, anti-infective agent, anti-oxidant and a wound healer.
If you plan on having a hospital birth, be sure to talk to your HCP to let them know that you do not want them to wash the vernix away-in fact, you might even want to let them know you don’t want them to give her a bath at all! You are well within your rights to bathe your own baby at your own pace. Not only is a baby massage a great bonding experience, you will be stimulating their skin, muscles and circulation.
This is a really cool program that I am proud to be a part of. We are a group of birth professionals and advocates that serve Upstate, SC. We provide free one-on-one consults to help you plan your birth, host monthly blessingways which focus on POSITIVE birth stories and provide great information for expectant and new families, and all kinds of other cool stuff.
Every woman deserves to birth the way she wants, but unfortunately a lot of the time, we don’t even know that there are options! I know when I had my first child, I didn’t know that there were midwives in Spartanburg. I just thought you go to the hospital and that was that. I imagine how different things would have been had I had access to the kind of information that is out there today.
Please check out the website and see how we can help you on your most wonderful journey.
Just a quick note, the Spartanburg Babywearing Group will meet next Monday-October 10th at 11 am at Labors of Love Birth Center. Whether you are pregnant, a new mom, an experienced mom (or dad!) or thinking about conceiving, please join us! Learn about the art of wearing your baby.